Today we’re talking about consent, submission and living out your sexual fantasies, for better or worse.

To help me explore these topics, I’ve invited a special guest onto the show to share her personal story and insights.

Her name is Arden Leigh and she’s the creator of The Re-Patterning Project, the founder of Witch Haven, the frontwoman of indie rock band Arden & the Wolves, and the host of webseries Peace Talks.

In this episode we discuss:

• Arden’s introduction to the world of Kink and BDSM
• The other side of consent no one is talking about
• The myth of sexual freedom
• Why we need to examine our sexual fantasies
• How a lack of self-esteem and healthy boundaries is a magnetic for toxic relationships
• Ending past life contracts...and so much more.

Enjoy!

Today we’re exploring power dynamics: in particular, dominance and submission. We’re going beyond power dynamics in a sex scene, and exploring it as a model of relationship, an actual lifestyle.  

I’ve invited a special guest onto the show today to share her personal experience with living in a DS relationship: the good, the bad and the ugly.

Now, for the purpose of sharing as openly and honestly as possible, she has chosen to remain anonymous.

As you’ll hear, being in a DS relationship can be incredibly isolating, especially when things go wrong.

You’ll hear us talk about:

• Setting up and signing contracts
• Pain vs punishment
• Liberating sexual repression
• Mental illness and substance abuse
• Narcissism and egoic dominance
• Self-awareness and self-inquiry
• Understanding your childhood traumas/wounds and the disowned aspects of self
• Journaling prompts to access your truth
• Drawing the line and setting boundaries
• And so much more!

Enjoy!